December 2011
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lexieeeanne:
I’m really not one to write personal shit on here but I think this deserves a post.
I really value the friendships I’ve made throughout the years and when one happens to go sour, it seriously affects me. I feel like I go out of my way so I can save our friendship; but when the other doesn’t even budge or try, I sort of just… become disappointed. It’s not the kind of...
Mom's Advice.
Mom: You shouldn't have told him you loved him.
Me: But, I did love him...
Mom: Yeah, but you loved him too much. You never let a guy know you love him more than anything. Because then they won't care if they hurt you, because they know you love him. They know you're not gonna do anything about it. Once they know they have control over you, they start using it against you and take you for granted. He won't care what he does to you, because he knows you care enough to stay with him no matter what he puts you through.
Me: But, what if you love someone enough that you WOULD do anything for him?
Mom: You need to stop that. I taught you to be stronger than this. You don't NEED any guy. Where's your independence? You let people take advantage of you so much, what's wrong with you? You need to be bigger than that. The next guy, don't let him hurt you. If he pushes you over, you push him out on the street. My daughter doesn't deserve that.
